The Hidden Trap of Seeking Relevance: How Constantly Craving Connection Distracts You from What Truly Matters
At our core, humans are wired for connection. Evolutionarily, being part of a tribe was essential for survival. Acceptance meant safety, resources, and community. Fast forward to today, and that ancient wiring still influences us — just in different forms. Relevance today means being seen, heard, and valued. It feels good